Author: Amber

  • A Resin Hot Mess

    Sooooo, I decided to try resin.
    Not because I needed a new hobby.
    Not because I could afford it.
    But because my brain said, “This looks fun and harmless.”
    My brain was… optimistic. 

    I watched a bunch of Daniel Cooper videos, nodded along, and decided I was ready. I already had a UV light from doing my nails, so UV resin felt like a reasonable place to start. I bought a couple of molds, silicone mats, mica powders, and some inks, fully convinced I was about to be a pro. 

    For my very first project, I went straight for a tiny monogram mold—an “S.” In my head, I was going to make earrings for my daughter-in-law as a gift. It was an ambitious choice for a first attempt. I tried coloring the letter with mica powder and then filled it with clear UV resin mixed with glitter. The mold itself worked fine, but my technique didn’t. I used too much glitter, the color choice was wrong, and the letter almost disappeared completely. It was a quick lesson in how unforgiving small, detailed molds can be when you’re brand new to resin. 

    For my second attempt, I made seashells. I brushed mica powder into the ridges and details, cured them, and was pleasantly surprised. They weren’t perfect, but they actually looked like seashells, which felt like a step in the right direction and a small win worth celebrating. 

    After that, I decided to try a technique I’d been curious about from the beginning. I had seen Daniel Cooper do this thing where he pours glue, swirls color into it, dips a cabochon into the pattern, lets it dry, and then seals the whole piece in resin. It looked simple enough.

    My first attempt did not go so well. I poured the glue, added the color, swirled it around, and dunked the cabochon I had made—without thinking through the very important detail of how I was going to get it back out. The glue was wet, the cabochon was slippery, and I ended up with glue all over the place. By the time I got it out, parts of the pattern had been wiped away completely where my fingers had slid across the bottom. The whole thing was a sticky, smeared mess. I wiped it clean and moved on.

    After rewatching the videos, I realized I had missed a very important step: letting the glue dry a bit before dipping anything into it. So I tried again. This time I poured the glue, added the colors, swirled them around, and then set everything aside until the next day. The results were better. The pattern transferred, although the colors were a little muddy in places. I liked it more than my first attempt, but not enough to keep it. Once the glue dried, I peeled it off the back, leaving me with a collection of clear cabochons waiting for me to get better at this resin thing before I try again.

    Since then, I’ve experimented with all sorts of small projects. I made earrings for my other daughter-in-law, played around with charms from my jewelry-making supplies by clipping the loops off the top of them, and slowly figuring out what works and what absolutely does not. There have been accidents, there have been happy accidents, and there have been plenty of moments where something went straight into the trash without hesitation. 

    One major lesson came when I decided to make coasters. I bought coaster molds and a large amount of UV resin, fully intending to make them for everyone in the family for Christmas. What I didn’t know until after the fact is that UV resin and coasters are not friends. The pieces warped, didn’t cure properly on the bottom, and generally looked terrible, so there will be no resin coasters, but I do now own a generous supply of UV resin.

    More recently, I’ve started experimenting with alcohol inks. I’m still learning how they behave, but more than anything, I’m learning patience. Resin is a craft that involves a lot of waiting—pour, wait, cure, wait, repeat. That’s something you don’t really see in videos, because all the waiting gets skipped or sped up. Learning to slow down has been part of the process. 

    I also made my first piece of resin paper, and I absolutely love it. I don’t know yet what I’ll use it for, but I know I’ll be making more.

    This whole process has been about experimenting, adjusting expectations, and learning as I go. Not everything turns out well. Not everything gets kept. But I’m enjoying it—and that’s what makes me want to keep going.

    I’ve decided to stick exclusively with UV resin. Epoxy isn’t a good fit for my space, airflow situation, or budget. UV resin works for what I want to do, and that’s enough.

  • What I’ve Been Working on Lately

    Let’s kick this off with something I actually finished—a hat for me! That’s right, not for my brother, not for my son, just me for once.

    I have no idea what yarns these are. I think I got them from KnitPicks years ago—maybe five or six? I don’t usually buy a lot of wool yarn since I live in Central Texas and honestly don’t need it most of the year. Most of my stash is acrylic, but this year it got cold early, and I wanted something warm.

    I didn’t follow a pattern for this one. I cast on 104 stitches (I have a 24-inch head, in case you’re wondering). This is sock yarn, so holding two strands together, US 5 ChiaoGoo Red Lace needles were perfect. I used the magic loop method and worked one-by-one rib until I had about 9 inches of fabric, then started decreasing for the crown. Nothing fancy—just decreased until I got bored, then sewed it up. I love the look of one-by-one rib—it’s my favorite for hats. It’s stretchy, it fits great, and it just always looks good.

    Here’s a second hat I finished This was for my soon-to-be daughter-in-law. This yarn is Caron Latte Cakes – Lovely Layers (in one of the purple shades), and it was so soft I had to switch to my KnitPicks rainbow wood needles to keep it from sliding around. I cast on 60 stitches (her head measured 22 inches) using size 8 circular needles and just worked one-by-one rib all the way to the top. Same basic pattern as mine, just fluffier and a bit smaller. Super cozy!

    On the Needles 🧶

    Here’s a pair of socks I’m currently working on, again, using some wool yarn I got from KnitPicks years ago. At one point I bought a bunch of wool yarn because I had never knit with it before, and I wanted to know what it was like. So I have a bunch of small 50-gram balls that I got from KnitPicks somewhere in my stash.

    These socks are for my son who recently moved to North Dakota and is currently freezing his poor Texas-born tootsies off. I was aiming to have them finished by Christmas, but let’s be honest—that deadline has sailed. They’ll be done when they’re done, and his toes will just have to wait.

    This is just a hat I’m working on using some acrylic yarn I’ve had forever. I think it’s Lion Brand, but I have no clue what the colorway is. It’s super squishy and soft, and I’ve tried using it for a bunch of different projects—shawls, gloves, hats—you name it. Nothing ever felt right.

    Last week I tried making a plain stockinette hat that would roll at the brim, but it looked awful. It didn’t sit right or move right or something. Now I’m trying again with a 2×1 rib… and honestly? I still don’t think I’m going to like it. I just cannot find the right project for this yarn.

    I’m keeping it in one of the first project bags I ever made. And that little flower stitch marker? I made it too! I love those beads and haven’t been able to find more like them. I got them in a random stash from a thrift store.

    This is the Half + Half Triangle Wrap from Purl Soho. I started it a long time ago—probably a couple of years back. I finished the first triangle, started the second, and realized something was terribly wrong. So I actually went back and read the pattern… turns out, I didn’t finish the first triangle properly.

    I tried to fix it by taking out just a few rows, but with the wrap-and-turns, I couldn’t figure it out. I’m not skilled enough for that yet, so I frogged the whole thing and started over. I’m almost done with the first triangle again now.

    The yarn is Yarn Bee Soft & Sleek DK from Hobby Lobby. It’s a heathered gray and, sadly, no longer shows up in the app. This is hands-down my favorite yarn ever—soft, lovely to work with, and perfect for hats or wraps like this. It might not be a true DK weight, maybe more of a light DK, but it’s dreamy.

    I keep this project close by all year round. It’s the one I reach for when I’m watching TV, bored, or just not feeling anything else. I can pick it up, knit a row or two, and put it back down.

    The stitch marker I’m using is one I made using a little polymer clay butterfly bead that I got from Amazon. I love the clasp style because it’s round and fits over larger needles easily.

    The project bag is also made by me using scrap fabric that I’ve had forever. It’s roomy, squishy, and perfect for this big wrap in progress.

  • My cross stitch story

    I honestly can’t remember when I started cross-stitching—or even what my very first project was. The first one I do remember was “Jesus Knocking at the Door,” a Bucilla kit (from back in the 1990’s). I was probably 17 or 18 when I got the kit, finished it around age 19 or 20, and gave it to my mom. It’s hanging on her wall in her bedroom, still in a cheap frame with no glass, yellowed from age, and has knots all over the back. I had masking tape around the edges. It was done by a teenager who had no idea what she was doing… but I loved it.

    Years later, I picked it back up again. Around 2014 or 2015, I bought a tiger kit for my son, who loved tigers at the time. It was on black Aida, and I learned the hard way that stitching on black fabric is not my happy place. It ended up in the UFO pile, where it still lives today.

    Then one day, I stumbled onto a Flosstube video—Sarah from A Stitchin’ Mommy—and my mind was blown. I had no idea you could buy fabric in colors other than white or black. I didn’t know there were different types of fabric besides Aida. I didn’t know you could buy patterns without buying a kit, choose your own floss, stitch without a hoop or frame, or even dye your own fabric. My whole world opened up.

    Like many, I got a little carried away. I found Heaven and Earth Designs, fell in love with massive full-coverage pieces, and bought way too many giant projects I’ll never finish in my lifetime (Boho Seaside Max Color, I’m looking at you). I eventually realized that smaller patterns can bring me just as much joy—and can actually get finished.

    Today, I have close to (or maybe more than) 100 cross-stitch projects in progress, plus a dresser full of floss, fabric, and patterns. I don’t finish often, but I love every stitch. Some pieces I’ve given away, some I’ve kept but haven’t framed yet, and some… well, they’re still in time-out. Right now I’m taking a break to focus on a wedding quilt, but I still think about cross-stitch every single day. And someday soon, I’ll be back at it—probably starting another project I don’t need, but can’t resist.

  • My knitting story

    Knitting is my happy place. Seriously — hand me some yarn and needles, and I’m good for hours. I mostly knit hats for my brother (he swears he loves them… probably has 100 by now) and occasionally for my youngest son (who also “loves” them). I’m great at starting projects, not so much at finishing them — except for a pair of socks I made for my dad, which he allegedly loves. Dad, if you’re reading this, I love you to pieces… but you’re never getting another pair. I hated every single minute of making them. Never again. Right now, besides working on Find Your Fade by Andrea Mowry, I’m knitting the Half + Half Triangle Wrap by Purl Soho, and loving it. Of course, in true hot mess fashion, I got all the way to the end of the first triangle, started the second, realized I hadn’t read the finishing instructions for the first one, and had to frog the whole thing. There was no way I was picking up those stitches with the wrap & turns. So here I am, halfway through triangle one… again.

  • The Age of Wisdom (and Who Decides It?)

    Lately, I’ve been watching a show called A Taste of History with Max Miller.
    It’s meant to be a light food series, but it keeps pulling me into something deeper. As he walks through the historical context of each dish, I find myself thinking about how young so many of these people were—leading, building, changing the world. And how differently we’ve come to view youth today.

    —

    In my generation—Generation X—we were raised to believe that wisdom only came with age.

    “You’ll understand when you’re older,” they told us. And we believed them. We were taught to listen, not speak. Respect our elders. Wait our turn. Because we hadn’t lived as long, our voices were dismissed as inexperienced, invalid, even foolish. (Or female.)

    We were meant to watch and learn until some invisible line was crossed, and then—someday—we’d finally be old enough to matter.
    But when is that day?

    —

    Looking back through history, it’s hard not to notice how often that idea just doesn’t hold.

    Joan of Arc was only 17 when she led an army.

    Alexander the Great became king at 20.

    Phillis Wheatley was 20 when she became the first African-American woman to publish a book of poetry.

    Even within our own American history, people in their 20s and 30s were founding nations:

    Edward Rutledge, 26, was the youngest signer of the Declaration of Independence.

    George Washington, 22, was commanding troops during the French and Indian War.

    Mary Shelley, just 20, published Frankenstein—a work that shaped literature for centuries.

    They didn’t wait their turn.
    They didn’t ask permission.

    —

    Did we break the cycle?

    Did we teach the next generation to think for themselves?
    To speak up, to question what they’re told, to use their imagination?
    Did we give them the confidence to shape the world they’re inheriting?

    Did we learn to listen to them?

    Maybe the question isn’t how old you have to be to be wise.

    Maybe it’s this:
    What if the age of wisdom isn’t an age at all?

  • Where the Heck Have I Been?!

    Where the Heck Have I Been?!

    One wedding, four dresses, three sleeping spots, two sick cats, a hole in my ceiling, and one exhausted mama.

    Hey y’all. I’ve missed you.

    If you’ve been wondering where I disappeared to, just know — I didn’t actually fall off the earth. I just got swallowed whole by real life. My son got married!! My ceiling caved in (literally). My cats got sick. And I stopped sleeping in one room like a normal human.

    Let’s just say it’s been a season.

    💃 The Great Dress Debacle

    Let’s talk about the dress — or, more accurately… the dress situation.

    The first one I ordered actually fit beautifully. But the jacket that came with it? Way too small. The company wouldn’t just replace the jacket — they said they had to replace the whole set. So in order to get a larger jacket, I would’ve had to get a larger dress that was going to be too big.

    So I ordered two different jackets from another company, and a backup dress from Amazon. This was the week of the wedding, and I was stressed out of my mind. I just wanted to look nice for my son’s big day. I wasn’t worried about embarrassing myself — I was worried about embarrassing him. I didn’t want to be the awkward mom in the corner of every photo. I wanted to do this right. For him.

    The two jackets I ordered actually fit beautifully — but they were totally the wrong color for the original dress.

    The Amazon dress fit, with a little room to spare — but not enough to worry about. The length was perfect. But there was a big black smudge right down the front of the cape-like overlay. I tried to clean it… and made it worse.

    So I ordered the same exact dress again — hoping the replacement (of the replacement) would show up clean. And I threw one more dress into the cart, because I needed options. These dresses were arriving the day before the wedding. I had to have a backup plan in case something else went wrong.

    Both dresses showed up just in time.

    • The new version of the smudged dress? Clean, beautiful, and ready to go.
    • The extra dress? Absolutely stunning — I loved it. But it was about a foot too long, and there just wasn’t time.

    So I wore the replacement (of the replacement) Amazon dress. And after weeks of stress — and everything else going on (see: furry soap opera below) — I felt amazing. It wasn’t just about how the dress looked… it was about showing up for one of the most important days of my son’s life feeling confident and proud. Mission accomplished!

    Pictures will be coming… as soon as I get them.

    🐾 The Furry Soap Opera

    As if wedding prep wasn’t enough, my house turned into a full-blown chaos zone. And not just because of the cats — although they definitely had starring roles.

    Right in the middle of it all, I was having roof work done. One of the contractors actually stepped through my ceiling, and they temporarily patched the hole with a black trash bag and duct tape. I made them use hot pink duct tape — because at that point? I needed to feel like something was under my control.
    If I had to have a black trash bag taped to my ceiling, I wanted it to be pretty.

    Zazu was absolutely mortified. The banging, the noise, the hole in the ceiling — it stressed him out so badly he got sick. And when Zazu gets sick, I panic. I got him to the vet quickly and thankfully we caught it early. He got meds and started to feel better.

    But then Zuri got it… and it hit her so much worse.

    I took her to an emergency hospital. They kept her overnight, gave her IV fluids, and syringe-fed her. Every time I called for an update, I got a different doctor — four total — and every one of them said, “I don’t know, I’m just getting to know her.” No one could tell me if she was improving or not, and I was furious.

    She didn’t get better. In fact, she got worse. So I took her to a different emergency vet for another opinion. They suspected FIP (Feline Infectious Peritonitis), which is hard to diagnose and extremely serious. They gave me a prescription for custom-compounded medication. I had to syringe it into her mouth twice a day.

    It was awful. Zuri is my quiet, fearful girl. In the four years I’ve had her, she never let me touch her. And now, I had to catch her, hold her, and give her meds. I was also syringing water and food because she wasn’t eating or drinking. I even ran hot showers just to steam her sinuses — I had frizzy hair for days.

    Meanwhile… sleep?
    I didn’t even know her.

    Every night, I rotated between two or three rooms. I’d start in Jarod’s room with Zeus, my newest rescue, who was recovering and separated from the others. Around 2 AM, I’d get up, go to the living room to love on Zazu and Zephyr, and then move to my room with Zuri. Some nights, I even napped on the couch in between. I was exhausted. Mentally and physically. It was a nightmare.

    But we made it. Somehow.
    Zazu recovered.
    Zuri recovered. And she looks part poodle now thanks to her little shaved arm where they had the IV — it’s kind of cute.

    Zephyr, for his part, had no idea what was going on. He was still new to the family — just recently let out of Jarod’s room before all of this started — and was walking around like a goofy big brother trying to figure out the house rules. And then I brought in Zeus.

    Zeus was never meant to be a permanent part of the family — just a rescue I was helping after he got kicked out of his colony, badly injured, and clearly confused about where he belonged. He had a wound across his nose and didn’t seem to know how to protect himself. I took him to the vet, got him treated and neutered, and gave him a safe place to heal while trying to find him a home.

    But Zephyr wouldn’t accept him. And after weeks of rotating rooms, constant stress, and everyone’s routines falling apart, I hit my limit. I had to take Zeus to PAWS to find him a new home — somewhere safe where he could be loved and not feared. It broke my heart, but I couldn’t do it anymore.

    So here we are.
    The chaos has quieted. The cats are healing. I’m back to sleeping in one bed again.

    Stay tuned for part two of the ceiling saga — because the contractor still has to come back and fix the terrible patch. I’m just hoping Zazu doesn’t get sick again when he does.

    Also, my other son is getting married in June! Stay tuned for that adventure!

  • Zephyr, My Grateful Survivor

    The Broken Stray Who Brought Me Peace

    When Zephyr first showed up on my porch, he was thin, beat up, and looked like he’d been fighting for every meal and losing half the time. The sore on the back of his neck was raw and kept reopening, no matter how carefully I treated it. At some point, he decided my porch was his safe place. He stopped wandering off, started watching me through the door, and little by little, trusted that I wasn’t going to chase him away.

    Zephyr was the reason I bought the cat house. The whole setup on my porch started because of him. He’d come by hungry and cautious, and I just couldn’t stand watching him fade a little more every day. I didn’t know anything about TNR then, or what to do with a stray who clearly needed help. Just when he started trusting me enough to stay close, that’s when I met Jennika, who taught me how to trap him and get him fixed through PALS. He was the first one I ever trapped, and I felt so guilty handing him over, even though I knew it was the right thing. They neutered him, treated the sore on his neck, and removed a twisted toenail that had started growing upward from an old injury. (They told me it might grow back normal… and it did!) I brought him home to recover in Jarod’s old room, and by the end of that week, I knew he was never going back outside again.

    While he was recovering safely behind the closed door, I bought one of those cheap mesh screens off Amazon—the kind you Velcro around a doorframe—but I stapled it instead. I could unzip it to go in and out of the room as needed, or close the door completely when tensions ran high so everyone felt safe. Zazu and Zephyr hit it off almost right away. Zuri took longer. She never attacked him, just kept her distance and hissed from across the room. Zephyr never once challenged her. He’s always been the most respectful boy, rolling onto his back whenever there’s even a hint of a standoff. He’s just happy. You can see how grateful he is. He knows he’s safe now.

    From the start, Zephyr was a snuggler. He’s always needed to be close—pressed against me, on my lap, sometimes right in my face like I might disappear if he’s not touching me. He’s been through so much in his short little year of life, and I think that’s why he clings so tight—he knows what it’s like to be alone. For the first couple of weeks, he was completely silent. Then one night, he nearly scared me half to death. His meow isn’t normal; it sounds like he’s saying “Ow!” in this long, drawn-out, whiny tone. Sometimes he even starts with “Mama!” first, like he’s calling for me to hear what he has to say. I’ve been told that’s a Siamese thing—and there is an intact male Siamese who lives across the street who could potentially be his father. Maybe that’s where he gets his flair for conversation. Once he settled in, the zoomies started. Not little bursts, either—full-blown, furniture-rattling, hallway-thundering zoomies. Zazu and Zuri just step aside and watch the show. It’s hilarious. No warning. He just screams then takes off.

    These days, Zephyr’s thriving. He’s bigger than Zazu now—long, tall, solid, with a growing little belly that swings side to side when he runs. He looks like a sleek black panther who discovered the joy of snacks. He’s also a very good helper. Every time I get food ready for the porch crew (new batch of strays that found me), he’s right there beside me, supervising. I’ll grab the plate and head for the food tub, and he trots over to inspect my work, sneaking a nibble like he’s making sure it’s good enough for everyone outside. He also takes his guard duties seriously—if someone new shows up on the porch or a delivery hits the door, he lets me know with a warning hiss.

    Inside, he’s exactly where he belongs. He and Zazu wrestle and chase each other through the house, then curl up nearby like brothers who’ve always known each other. Zuri’s still cautious, but she’s come a long way—no more hissing standoffs, just quiet coexistence (and the occasional short hiss when she’s startled). Most nights, Zephyr ends up in my lap while I’m in my recliner, stretched across me like he’s home—which, finally, he is.

    Every time I look at him, I still see that scrappy little porch cat he used to be. The memory never really leaves—it just sits quietly next to the gratitude. He hasn’t forgotten either. You can feel it in the way he presses close, in the way he looks at me before settling into my lap. Every day, he reminds me that rescue goes both ways.

  • WIP Parade: Fall & Halloween

    Fall is here, and so are my autumn and Halloween projects. This is the first in my new WIP Parade series, where I’ll share the cross-stitch pieces currently in progress. Some are barely started, some are nearly finished, but all fit perfectly with the season.

    Graveyard Biscornu

    Designer: Karen Bowen (KEB Studio Creations)

    Fabric: 14 ct Aida, hand-dyed by me

    Progress: just started — spider, web, and a few motifs stitched so far

    Notes: This is from this year’s Just CrossStitch Halloween issue. I’ve never made a biscornu before, so I thought I’d give it a try. I just started yesterday, so we’ll see how it turns out.

    UPDATE: As of November 1, 2025, here is where I am at with the biscornu. I didn’t get it done, but I got sooooo close!! Disregard the stray thread on that skull & crossbones. The thread came out of my needle and I was too lazy to try to thread it back.

    Where Did I Put My Broom

    • Designer: Modern Folk Embroidery
    • Fabric: 18 ct Aida, hand-dyed by me
    • Progress: about 98% complete — just need to finish the cauldron fill and add the frogs
    • Notes: I love Modern Folk Embroidery patterns and even have a few of his samplers. It’s so close, I don’t know why I haven’t just finished it.

    Halloween Quaker

    Designer: Lila’s Studio

    Fabric: 18 ct Aida, hand-dyed by me (I had no idea what I was doing and it came out awesome by accident)

    Progress: about 20% — witch, text, and several motifs finished

    Notes: I was never that into Halloween (yes, even with black cats in the house) until I saw Dena from Halfstitch Cross Stitch on YouTube working on this. I had to have it. Now I love pulling it out every year in October, and honestly, it takes some willpower not to work on it all year long. Holding off feels like flexing a self-control muscle — it makes Halloween stitching even sweeter.

    A Colorful Past

    Artwork by: Jane Wooster Scott

    Charted by: Michele Sayetta, Heaven & Earth Designs

    Fabric: 18 ct Aida, white

    Progress: early start — working through the big black sky

    Notes: I love this picture — the fall colors are gorgeous, and there are big blocks of color that make for great mindless stitching. I first tried this on a linen (probably 25 ct) and stitched almost the entire black sky 1×1, but it was way too floppy and miserable since I stitch in hand. I restarted on 18 ct Aida, which has become my favorite fabric. It’s affordable on Amazon, and I can dye it myself if I want. The blue dots you see are just me counting to 10 with a washable fabric pen.

    Halloween Gnome

    Designer: Soda Stitch

    Fabric: 25ct Lugana, stitched 1×1 with DMC (same piece as Hello Fall)

    Progress: About half of the border motifs left

    Gnotes: This gnome lives at the top of the same fabric as Hello Fall. I set him aside when Halloween Quaker stole the spotlight, but one of these days he’ll get finished.

    Hello Fall

    Designer: Soda Stitch

    Fabric: 25ct Lugana, stitched 1×1 with DMC

    Progress: Finished ✨

    Gnotes: I loved stitching this — the challenge of 1×1 on tiny fabric is weirdly fun. Plus, gnomes are my weakness (I’ve got several going right now). This one just screams fall and totally nudged me into the autumn mood. I really need to get it framed or fully finished… for now it’s living in a drawer in my craft room.

    Pumpkin Carriage

    Designer: OwlForest Embroidery

    Fabric: 18ct Aida, stitched with DMC

    Progress: Finished ✨

    Notes: I LOOOOVE OwlForest Embroidery patterns. I’ve got a few of their larger ones, but this one was a small, quick finish. The colors are gorgeous, and it’s got such a fairy-tale vibe. Now I just need to figure out how I want to finish it.

    Future Fall Stitching Plans

    (A peek at patterns waiting their turn in the hoop!)

    Top row (left → right):

    • Glory of Autumn — Dimensions
    • Cornucopia — Alena Koshkina
    • Hoppy Halloween — Brooke Nolan (Brooke’s Books)

    Bottom row (left → right):

    • Mini Scaredy Cats — Heaven & Earth Designs (art by Jeff Haynie)
    • Autumn — Designer Unknown
    • Halloween Owl — The World of Cross Stitching Magazine, Issue 272 (Oct 2018, freebie)

    What I Actually Worked On – Halloween/Fall 2025

    So I didn’t actually touch any of the projects in my plans… of course.

    A Witches Welcome

    Designer: Annie Craft of Dirty Annie’s

    Fabric: 18ct Aida dyed by me, stitched with DMC

    Progress: Early start – maybe 10%

    Notes: This is from the Fall 2023 Just CrossStitch magazine. I don’t know why I started it. I think I needed a break from the biscornu. But isn’t this adorable? I love it.

    Wooly stitches

    Designer: Nicoletta Farruto of Nikyscreations

    Fabric: 28ct lambs wool linen, stitched with DMC

    Progress: Early start – maybe 15%

    Notes: This is from the Autumn 2025 Just CrossStitch magazine. Yea, I know. A lot of stitching from the magazines. I just had never really sat down and looked through them with the idea of actually stitching anything out of them because I am always working on something else. I started this in September I believe. Right when fall started. This pattern is so adorable. I just had to do it. I don’t think I will stitch the pumpkins on the sides of the sheep though. We’ll see. I won’t pick it up again until next year, so who knows what I’ll do.

    The Sorceress

    Designer: Joan Elliott

    Fabric: 18ct Aida, dyed by me

    Progress: Early start – 1.15%

    Notes: Soooo, I was watching Catkin & Lillie the other day and she was working on this, and I had to have it. (I also got Mermaid’s Realm & A Winter’s Gift, all Joan Elliott, because of her. Thanks Kat. LOL) Sadly, I didn’t get far before Halloween was over. Now it’s time for me to work on winter holiday projects.

  • Zuri: My Elusive Queen

    The cautious beauty who taught me patience and trust.

    Every cat has a story, and Zuri’s is one of courage. I brought her home in April of 2021 because I thought my boy Zazu needed a friend. He was nearing a year old, and I hoped a companion would be good for him.

    When I went into the shelter cat room, there were so many precious cats and kittens. But way in the back, in a cage, was a tiny, terrified cat, huddled up with pure horror in her eyes. The staff told me animal control had picked her up along with a group of strays. At first, they thought she was feral, but later decided she wasn’t. I asked to hold her. She didn’t fight, but she shook all over and tucked her face into my arm like she was trying to calm herself down. I knew instantly: this was the one. Her shelter name was “Peach,” but she became my Zuri. They said she was two years old, though she was so small I could hardly believe it.

    I brought her home and set her up in Jarod’s room. She stayed hidden constantly, too scared to trust me. Eventually, I let Zazu in to meet her. After the usual hissing, they became inseparable. Zuri adores him, and their bond runs deep. They snuggle, bathe each other, and play together—a connection I don’t think either of them will ever share with another cat.

    Zuri has always been hard to touch. In four years, I’ve only held her a couple of times—once when she had something dangerous in her mouth and I had to trap her in the bathroom, and another when she got sick and had to go to the vet. Each time, though, when I finally caught her, she melted in my arms. She didn’t fight me; she just let me hold her as if she remembered, deep down, that she could trust me.

    Most of the time, Zuri prefers to stay at a distance. She loves her window perch behind my recliner, hidden behind the curtain, where she can watch in peace. Sometimes I sneak in a quick pet before she realizes, and then she darts away. But little by little, she has grown braver. Since Zephyr joined our home, she seems to see me as the safer option, and she’ll come closer than she used to.

    Now, with Zeus waiting to join the household, I think Zuri will be the deciding factor. She still hisses at Zephyr if he rushes her, but she doesn’t fight him—and he respects her as the boss. I’m hoping she’ll accept Zeus, maybe even mother him a little, because he’s such a baby at heart.

    Zuri is about six years old now. She may never be a cuddly lap cat, but she’s my elusive queen, my cautious, beautiful girl. I love her so much, exactly as she is.

    Thanks for reading Zuri’s story. Do you have an elusive queen (or king) in your life? I’d love to hear about them in the comments.

  • Showing Up

    My son just moved into his new place this week—he hasn’t even finished unpacking yet.

    I remember how it felt way back in the beginning when I first had a place of my own. I didn’t want my mom or dad to come see it so I could prove anything. I just wanted them to be excited for me, to come see me, to come see my home. In all the years and all the places I’ve lived, I can count on one hand the times my parents came to see me.

    So I’ve decided I won’t let my sons ever feel that emptiness. When they step into new chapters—whether it’s moving into their first apartment or making a home states away—I’ll show up. Even if it’s inconvenient. Even if it takes work. Because I know exactly what it feels like when nobody does.